Pray for me?

[selenajeanx3]

It's been 2 months since I've lost my father.

Nowadays everything is so hard for me. I'm only 15, and I can't get over that my father won't be there with me growing up.
He was the most important person in my life. He raised me to have the greatest sense of humor, and to be a lover not a fighter. He always made things easier for me.

I have 2 older brothers, but my dad always wanted a daughter. When I was born, it must of been one of the happiest moments of his life. He did everything he could to always spoil me, I usually wouldn't let him.

Ever since my dad's death, my friends have been abandoning me. My school grades have gone down. My mom puts me down. It seems like everything just keeps getting worse and worse.

Does anybody have any advice/ comforting words? Anything?

Please pray for me.

~Selena

[BoardMod]

I feel your pain.

I too have lost immediate family.

The many different feelings that come into your life may seem to overwhelm you.

But.


DO have faith that God can wipe away every tear.
Heal each and every heart.

His strength is perfect.

We as humans are weak, frail, and sometimes we can not understand what is happening to us.

Please remember the memories of your dad.

I never knew my dad and him and my stepfather are both gone now.

This will be a day to day event for you.

Take it moment by moment.

Breathe in the life that you have, and hold on to your dreams and try to make them come true.

Your story is your life.

One of many that maybe just maybe one day you too can help someone else in their pain.

[Jen Solano]

Oh, sweetie I am so sorry to hear the sorrow and sadness in your life.  I have to agree with Jeremy in that God does have a plan for your life and He can get you through this if you let him. Do you have someone to talk to? A school counselor? A pastor? If you don't please consider talking to someone like that. They can help. I know they can. My life at your age was very hard too. I had a great school counselor and I went to a private counselor. With that support system I grew in to a very healthy adult.

I will pray for you darling. You are so precious and worth so much. Friends in middle/high school just don't stick around as you get older. Mine didn't. There is truth in the old saying, "you know who you're friends are because they'll stick with you through thick and thin." So true. True friends are there with you no matter what and will NEVER turn there backs on you.

Please keep reaching out to us here and you are always, always welcome to call me to talk. My number is just down below here.

Much love to you sweetheart!
Jen

[hendrixfamily]

I know it seems hard, and that you need emotional help, and I know that everyone is probaly like, oh I know what your feeling, but I also know that nobody does! Everyone feelsgs different. I lost my son, and can have no more, but God then opened a door and allowed us to adopt,
I know you can't just get another father, but in time you will get something, a peace, knowing that your dads in a better place, knowing that he won't hurt anymore,.
I know it doesn't help know, but time can help heal all wounds
My nephew was 2 when his mother was murdered, he's 16 now, and very confussed by what people have told him, he has no memory of his mom, be thankful for the moments you shared with you dad and just remember that he loved you!
I will pray for you and hope that you remember that God loves you to! I know you may be angry at him right now, but he still is with you and does love you!